on p.199 of Curious? (by ToddKashdan):
this is a nice metaphor for what happens when you don't give it your 100% in real life!
"...people often avoid getting out on the DanceFloor, and if they do, they don't let it all hang out, they play it safe, snapping their fingers, softly clapping their hands, swinging their arms just a bit, moving their hips just a bit, nothing that might bring attention. The result? Challenges are kept to a minimum, lessening our chances for finding meaning."
this is a nice metaphor for what happens when you don't give it your 100% in real life!